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are you waiting for to change?
How
can you make it happen?
You can lament
the state of the world at large, the world immediately around
you and your own personal internal world. You can easily feel
offended, hurt, frustrated and annoyed and it may seem that the
perpetrator/s have set out to get to you.
In my experience,
the great majority of people are doing their own lamenting and
their real focus is on themselves, especially when they are feeling
pressure. They often act out from emotion as an unconscious act
of survival and always have a positive intention for the situation
“as they see, hear or feel it”.
This is as
valid at a personal level as it is in the world of political instability.
This is a crucial aspect of potential leadership in action!
Often it may
seem to be too hard, to fruitless, or too time consuming to make
an effort to make a difference. After all it’s their fault,
it is they who are acting inappropriately! All would be fine if
only they did/did not…
If you truly
want to positively impact people and situations, reacting from
intense emotion is futile and can perpetrate more complexity and
misunderstanding.
To ensure
you really connect you must equate the emotional with the rational.
Take a step back and consider what is important to the other person,
what is it that they may be thinking from their perspective. At
some high level point you will each have the same intention, best
consider that and begin the dialogue there… but do begin…
if you genuinely want to make a difference.
In being considerate,
you take on a wiser perspective and you watch your world change
from the inside out.
What’s
happening in your busy world right now to allow you to be different
and act differently?
Reply
to me on my Blog,
I would love your stories and feedback…
For
more on this theme, check my podcast posted my Blog
today entitled “Who’s the block to achieving your
results?”
I
look forward to connecting with you on my Blog
and on Business!
Noelene
Dawes
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Dawes
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